Category: Dating and Relationships
Ok, I'm dating this really awesome guy named Aaron. He's so sweet and he really likes me, but my friends swing two ways. Half of my friends approve, but half of them don't. They think he wants me for my looks only, but I don't know if it's true. What should I do?
if you think he's great, that's all that matters really. in the end, it's your decision.
no one can tell you who is the right one. just you, your own. what people can give you is an advice. you are the one who know him and you are the one who in love with him. how true he is, you know it yourself better than anyone else.
Only you can decide what is right for you. You have to be the one to judge that. See how he acts around you. Is he talking more about your body, or is he concerned with you as a person. Don't listen to what your friend say, you have to do what makes you happy. Good luck girl. Hugs.
Agreed!!!
*sexy*
just do what you feel is right. good luck to you.
WinterFresh. it sounds as though you have to decide whether you trust him or not! if you do then what anybody else thinks is errelevent! if on the other hand you don't then perhaps its you that ought to be asking these questions of yourself!
either way, its down to you and nobody else.
good luck.
observe him and get to know him, spend more time with him to see what type of guy he is and thats when you'll find out if he just likes you for your looks good luck. fallow your heart not what others say.
Well, exactly. NObody can tell you who is the right one, you have to try out. And only because yyour friends say that, it doesn't have to be true, and you only find out by trying out.
Thanks, Guys.
Winterfresh: I would dump these superficial intolerant friends, because if they can't accept his sexuality, it wont be long before they find another fault, and then another, until you feel it would be better to resign yourself to their opinion...
Goblin I totally agree.
I agree with Goblin as well.
I've been in this situation quite some time ago.
um, what on earth are you talking about goblin? she didn't say that her boyfriend swings both ways! lol. my god read the frigging posts properly before responding to them! what she said was that she was dating an awesome guy but that her friends swung both ways. meaning that some liked him and others didn't!
jesus! he ignores most of the users and then misinterprets the rest!
i just wish to inform everybody! right now my eyes are cast heavenward!
um yeh where exactly did his sexuality come into the topic?
Well she said her friends claimed that he would aproach people sexually or something like that. Well, if it's true or not is a different story.
um, no! she didn't say anything of the sort! all that she said was half of her friends did aprove of herseeing this guy while the other half thought that he only wanted her for her looks!
you needen't take my word for it! it's right there for all to see right at the top of the topic!
you follow your heart.
Actually, my friends that don't approve are xes. Lol. And they did say that he approaches people sexually, but all they want is to get me back.
Then you might want to add vindictive to the list of their dubious attributes..I'm not getting at you but...if they are your friends I'd hate to see your enemies...
ok, well in my view I think that to tell someone to ditch their friends because they have said the guy is after a girl for her body only is a little harsh. after all, what if they're right. what if you knew a friend of yours was going out with someone and you thought the guy was only after them for their body, wouldn't you tell that friend? does that make you vindictive? I don't think it does. yes maybe the friends are wrong, the only person who really knows is you, and your partner. I think goblin is somewhat confused as sexuality, (as in the homosexual sense) did not enter this topic so I think he's perhaps going off on a different tangent to the rest of the posters here.
Yah, but as I said theese friends are x bfs, and just want me back. I told them no no no no no no, and they don't get it still.
as I said they are childish ignorant and unable to cope with rejection just you carry on and ignore their tantrums...
Thank you, Goblin I couldn't agree more.
Hi Well you should follow your heart. If you love him then don't listen to what they are telling you. If you feel concern than you could talk to him and let him tell you how he feels about you and just try to follow your heart as I said before.
i agreee with everyone else. you should tell them friends to but out and that you are in love with this guy. if they can't deal with it then they are real friends.
Pray about it and see what God says you should, and if you don't believe in God just listen to your heart and take into consideration what your friends are saying and you could talk to someone really close to the guy.
Well, I just thought I'd tell you guys what happened. It turns out that unfortunately my friends were right. He questioned my sexuallity cause I was hanging out with my girls. So, I dumped him.